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Sunday, November 26, 2006

Ooru vittu ooru vandhu...


Indha oorla irukardhu is getting a lot scary these days. Edho onsite vandhoma, 4 idam suthinoma, sandoshama irundoma-nradhe kanom. I am not sure about other places, but London is becoming an unsafe place. So indha blog enikkavadu gets dormant-na, maybe its something wrong up here in London :)) Ok ok, Indianangel, I am not insinuating at anything negative here, but konjam terrified-a dhan iruken naan and am trying to make it sound light. Or it is maybe that as usual enakudhan ellam thappu thappa nadakudho ennamo..

Recently there was this news: underground station-la, there was this guy who just glanced at another guy who was talking to his gf. They were apparently fighting, but indha payyan adhai kettana-nu therila. Anyways, so it was just a glance. Train vandadhu, and rendu guys-ume boarded the same compartment, and after a few minutes of the departure of the train, the second guy came up to the first guy and killed him! And this first guy was a student and wanted to sign up for the army. Super-a illa? Oruthan parthadhuke kolai panranga indha naatla..yarayum parkave koodadhu poliruku, even by the way of looking around casually. Naan erkaneve nalla paraku parkara case (I mean, in the good sense), so inimel velila pona I am planning to wear 4 layers of padded clothing, followed by 1 layer of red ink, and then my dress..kuthinappuram ratham vandha velai mudinjadu-nu ninaichuppanga la..he he..nethu Dhoom2 partha effect idhellam.

Ok, so I was thinking idhellam engayavadhudhan nadakum, just that wrong people wrong time and wrong place. Kadaiseela partha, namake aapu vaikaranga! I am not saying I faced a very severe situation, but whatever trivial thing that happened has quite scared me. On Wednesday, I had been to a night show of Casino Royale in my locality. Thirumba varumpodhu, it was slightly raining and dark, and I was wearing my coat's hood too. Appo roadla sila teenagers irundhanga, you would think they are just teenagers, that is what I thought too. Thideernu two of them came to me asking "is that a man or a woman", and we just kept walking. One of them touched me from behind, and naan rombave kaduppaiten - I mean, who the heck is touching me-nu - and I said "Get lost!" and walked away. Konja neram they were laughing saying "ok, thats a woman" appadinu, but thideernu I dont know what hit their brains, one of them, a girl came running behind me and started yelling at me. Thirumba partha, she started asking me "Do u want me to smack you up?", I was for a moment shocked. This kid, who probably is in her teens, is threatening me, considerably elder to her. I asked her, "what is it to you whether I am a man or a woman?" and she continued yelling "do you want me to smack you up?", and my anger started rising.

Not that I am the kind who hits people, aana normal-a namakellame kobam varumillaya if being unfairly threatened, adhan enakum vandhadhu. I was thinking, why cant we just hit this impertinent kid, when her friends surrounded us, and oru chinna payyan - nijamave kutti paayan, may be he is 11 or 12 - started yelling at me using all possible expletives. En kooda vandha nallavar (he he) started asking them, "why do you want to hit her", and this girl justifies herself saying I told her to get lost! Aniyayama therila? Ivanga vandhu chumma poravala thoduvangalam, naan aana thitta koodadham! He pacified me saying 'Usha, dont get tensed' and apologized to them, and naanum 'sorry'-nu kaduppoda avangala parthu sonnen. Appovum kooda they didn't want to let us go and were threatening us. So mudive panten, seri nammala pottu thakka poranga, suthi yaarume illa, gaali di Usha nee-nu. Appodhan yet another kiddo from that gang came and said "hey, c'mon leave them" and started pushing them away. Then konjam light-a we got relieved, and we started walking the other way.

But I was so tensed the way back, and seething with anger. Enna kodumai parunga, these "thugs" are just teenagers, younger than us, and still they had the upper hand. And they might have attacked us with knives or anything, and still escape coz as far as I learnt, there are not laws that arrest teenagers, and they can get away with this. Maybe I am wrong, but that is what my colleague told me. Aana romba aniyayam, I am scared these days to walk after hours anywhere, konjam gumbala yaraiyavadhu parthutta I shiver inside and try taking longer steps towards home :))

64 Comments:

Blogger ashok said...

hi Usha...SO thats the scary inside story from London?

5:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe the hood made you look like a mean gangsta and the kids felt threatened. Just kiddin.. lol :)
Usha, idhukku poi bayapadalaama? There's no reason to be afraid. Such creeps exist in every city. I'm sure you can deal with them.
Keep writing sweets.

12:30 PM  
Blogger Jagan said...

i hav also gone thru some of those weird experiences - a huge guy next to me in flight got up and hit his head agianst the compartment used for keeping the hand luggage .he gave me weird look and said - next time it happens i will hit u .i was like what the heck ..and he was a huge 6+ feet afro american ..and in another flight , there was a psycho guy who kept asking others for lip stick .And he was doing some real disgusting stuffs .....i feel most of them are "arai loosu" , they think being weird is cool.

3:36 AM  
Blogger ambi said...

Oh My God! this is really wierd. but we can't handle these stupids in our own way as we used to do here.
naalu saathu sathiruppom ithe situation inga vanthaa.

take care usha!

6:03 AM  
Blogger SLN said...

Thats a very scary story. Have heard a few such from other friends. I myself try to avoid groups of teenagers, it is a no win situation. Like you said, they almost always can go scot-free, while any use of force from our side will see serious legal repurcussions. Will have to be happy, no damage done

Cheers
SLN

12:58 PM  
Blogger Ravi said...

usssssssssssh .... yappa .. kaathu karupppu paatha effect'u .. iruku ...

ha ha ha !!

am jus kiddin... i can understand the situation u where in .... i dont know much about london or the other stuffs ... but all i can say .. is plz ... getdown to the line with such ppl .. even though u r right on u r part ( i mean .. getdown u r temper !!).. coz' its important that u gotto be safe .. dont give any quick/ harsh reactions .. its harm to u ..

.. and to my knowledge .. those teenagers can go upto anything ... if things get worse .. so beware .. and be safe ..

.. and never ever .. go alone .. if its going to be at late hours .. also .. if its going to be more deserted place ..

... its all .. u gotto tolerate with these stuffs .. a serious post .. it wud never been such serious .. if its hpnd to some one else .. but to the sadness its on u ..

ok ok .. just get out of that hell and plz get back to u r duty .. yeah ... the same kodumai's ..

9:50 PM  
Blogger My days(Gops) said...

adada, unga blog titel'a once more me reading ah...

veetuku veedu vaasapadi maaadhiri.,
Oorukku, oooru idhu maadhiri,
"araaathunga irruka thaan seiraaanga...aaana adhula 'girlsh'um irrukaaanga'nu paaarkum/ketkum bodhu, aaah ah romba nannaaa irruku......

(namma ooorla ippadi ellam illai'nga)

5:41 AM  
Blogger EarthlyTraveler said...

OH!MY!Nijama Kodumai ayida pogudhu.
Becareful!NightSHOW!!Thevaiya?Samatha,Jakiradhaiya irungo.The person with you acted well.Gang Pshycology is very dangerous. Kootama irukumbodhu they are triggered to do face any challange, so we have to be careful.andha idathil sorry kettutu vandhadhu puthisalithanam.illanna kodumaikku kuthuthan.--SKM

10:11 AM  
Blogger KK said...

Oh no! But you know what, you guys did the right thing by asking apology and moving out of there. Don't go out late unless you have a huge gang.

4:02 PM  
Blogger ambi said...

//The person with you acted well.//

@SKM & usha, LOL :) who is that nallavar usha..? (with 100%innocense) :p

//illanna kodumaikku kuthuthan//
cha! jushtu missu! LOL
un KC buthi at that time velai seyalaiyaa? :)

7:46 PM  
Blogger Viji said...

jakkardhaya iru maa... veetla solladhe, they'll get really scared.

9:54 PM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

my destination is London. what do you say ?

7:01 AM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

hi Kodumai - I noticed you and some of your friends in blog world have a great affinity with tamil - I am searching for tamil urrai for some of the sangam literature in soft copy - could you check with your friends if you can manage some of these - if you can do share with me. I am interested to spend some time trying to read sanga illakiyam - while studying school didnt try learning much beyond the syllabus.

1. Manimegalai,
2.Civaka Cintamani
3.Valayaapathi 4.Kundalakesi.

atleast i know the story of silapathikaram but have no clue what all these other iymperu kappiyam talks about.

Could you be able to help with some e soft copies? if not do you know who has written porullurai for these - like Dr. Karunanidhi has written for thollkapiyam - if you know any hard copy book form do let me know with publisher will try to buy them

7:33 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

That's really a concerning situation...Phew...I can really understand how u might have felt!

I don't understand why..But I find a lot of teenagers lately becoming very violent and arrogant...Indha rap videos le vara thugs maadri..."seri pona pordhu..chinna pasanga nu partha...romba too mucha poranga." I can't help but question the effect of Media here...

Oops..romba pesarenle...Anyways u tc...unless u can't avoid...always try going in groups than alone...And also try avoiding late nights..!

8:08 AM  
Blogger Syam said...

yenga naan potta comment ah kanom..

athu sari pesaama thirutu DVD vaangi paarkaratha vitutu ethuku kaasu selavu panni theatre ku poi sondha selavula sooniyam vechukanum :-)

2:34 PM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

londonlla kodumai kodumainu oru ponnu irrukkan - antha ponu kodumai da saminu sollumam - after all happiness is not the only thing in earth to experience illa. athan....

by the way - tamil patruu theedirunu ootrueduthu varuthu.

tamilian ennru sollada acha puchanu neriya peru blog worldlla scene podrangalla - serri nama scene podarathukku munnalla atleast 1 % tamil sanga ellakiyatha pathi konjam therinjukitu scene podallamnu than.

actually last night struggled hard to recall all the 5 great epic of tamil and pathenennuul khannaku etc..

thidir sambar mathiri - thidir khadal -

4:20 PM  
Blogger ambi said...

//I noticed you and some of your friends in blog world have a great affinity with tamil //

@usha, usha, unnai vechu intha Kstranger ethuvum comedy kimady ethuvum pannaliye? LOL :)

//but have no clue what all these other iymperu kappiyam talks about.
//
@KStranger, overu scenu udambuku aagathu raasa.

12:48 AM  
Blogger Butterflies said...

unnayee bayamuruthuraangalaa?adippaavi ennakodumai ithu ushaa?

6:59 AM  
Blogger vishy said...

hmm... USHA blog is going to be stagnant for some time.. now.. have someother things to do...

between indha mari orula ellam if it gets too risky its better to have a gun.. inga US la u can goto a shop and get a gun... no lisence required to have a gun in your home or car... but u need a lisence to carry it around with you...

un kooda vandha andha nallavarukku oru kelvi.. kakka kaaka style la..

"At this time of the night and with a girl by your side... don't you think you should have a gun with for your self defense??"

7:56 AM  
Blogger Ajay said...

apdi enna panna nee..for them to get sooo angry...
jokes apart take care in the future....

12:42 PM  
Blogger Aravind said...

pretty scary ..just stick onto dvd rips and torrents online and get a home theater.its no pessimism but playin it safe.

4:10 PM  
Blogger APAM NAPAT said...

Considerably elder - enna oru 50 irrukuma.
If I were in your position, i wdn't have had the guts to stand and talk. Atleast you stood ground.

Bravo!

8:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG! that's ridiculous! take care in the future... seems dangerous!

cute blog.. first time here.. :)

11:16 PM  
Blogger மு.கார்த்திகேயன் said...

//it is maybe that as usual enakudhan ellam thappu thappa nadakudho ennamo//
paavam usha neenga..intha levelukku poyitteenkale

//Naan erkaneve nalla paraku parkara case (I mean, in the good sense)//
:-))

// younger than us//
usha..eththanai thadavai ithavE sollveenga.. vayachaanaalE ippadiththaanO

8:59 AM  
Blogger மு.கார்த்திகேயன் said...

BTW, romba kodumaiyaana anupavam thaan usha..
intha maathiri ellaam nadakkumaa appadinnu ninachchirukken..
nadakkum polaththaan theriyuthu..
ulakam romba kettuth thaan kidakkunga usha..

enga porathunaalum konjam ushaaravE irukkunga..

take care usha..

8:59 AM  
Blogger Harish said...

Holy gosh..i have heard similar stories here as well..
Adunaala enna periya project kanraavi comletion irundaalum b4 7 pm veetukku jootu thaan
Jaakiradaya iru thaayi...

7:23 PM  
Blogger Shyamala said...

maybe if we could lay hands on the blogs who see you, then we ll get the real scary story.. ;)

is this beach sihoutte really you? edhu vidaiya endhu bayamma erukku ;)lol

12:46 AM  
Blogger radiantbear said...

cha cha cha.. :))

nege nallavangala ketavangala???(with back ground music)

who knows maybe one day u'll become one big dada!!


lol

cheers,

ny

5:57 PM  
Blogger The Kid said...

Hi,

First time inga varaen. Romba naalla ezudaringa. "Mudan mudalil paarthaen" supera irundadu madam. I would say, "Bantu reethi koolu" was a good selection to sing.

btw, ponnu paaka varum boedhu paada sonnal enna thappu. Neengalum payane pada sonnallum, seri thaane! (avar anga illa, thappichutaar)

11:56 PM  
Blogger The Kid said...

onnu kekkanum pola thonithu. ippadi aniyayama Calvin comics-e bit adikeringala... copywrite problems onnum varadha?

aanal cartoon selection nacchunnu irruku! :)

1:35 AM  
Blogger Narayan said...

Hello..

Oru different take:

We should not be scared, just because we are strangers. Fear is the key. When you are scared, you are no longer yourself. So, do what it takes to get over your fears. Whatever you do, do not appear to be a pushover, because that is the worst mistake you can make. Contact the police, and report the incident. If they don't act, contact your local newspaper. Raise a stink! Remember, the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Pepper Spray! Is that stuff available in the UK ? Get some, attach it to your key chain, and have it handy. Have it armed when you walk home (late?) at night.

If the person touched you - irrespective of the location - you can file charges for assault, and it becomes sexual assault if they touched you "inappropriately". So, know your rights, and act accordingly. This does not mean you walk into some ghetto area and then stake your claim; rather, you should combine your knowledge of the area and your rights and act accordingly. If it is someplace near where your live, act strongly.

If you feel like you are living in a bad area, contact your company and ask them to move you to a different location. I don't know how this works in the UK, but there is this little thing called "lawsuit" that most people in the US are VERY scared of. Use it to your advantage :)

Good luck. Puliyai morathal adithu virattiya thamizh pennai pol, dhairiyam avasiyam :)

6:02 PM  
Blogger smiley said...

Naan erkaneve nalla paraku parkara case (I mean, in the good sense), so inimel velila pona I am planning to wear 4 layers of padded clothing, followed by 1 layer of red ink, and then my dress

simple solution... wear a pair of dark glasses so neenga yengay pakaringa enru yarukkum theriyathu :)

scary story...be careful :)

3:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

chillax!!!! and as somebody suggested get some pepper spray!!!


btw nallavelai nan chennai vasi...nallave parkalam ;)) :P

6:35 AM  
Blogger Viji said...

Enna Usha, aalaye kaanum... adutha post podu. Please, engala kodumai paduthu. :P

8:46 PM  
Blogger Priya said...

Usha, its really scary. enna dhan naama vera naatla irukkarappo, indha madhiri edhavadhu nadandha romba bayama dhan irukkum. Jaakradhaya irunga..

8:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

still are you in this mood.Come out of it Usha.
"partha naal mudhalae" is not completed.Torture us with that kodumai Madam.

9:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

where are U in London, croydon pakkam vantha ithu laam sagajam :)
and now the ipswitch murders vera kadia kelaputhu.
London was never a safe place :(

~svk

2:33 PM  
Blogger ruby said...

ASBO...
ASBO...
ASBO...

ahahahah!!

Kalyana ponnu...jakiradhiya iruma...pavam Mr. Usha...evloo manasu kasttupattu irupar...Andhta idathula...avar mattum irundhu irundharna'''summa rajini mathri parandhu parandhu adichi irupar...ahhahah

hey...My policy in this "Dushtanai kandal doora velagu"
We live in a country which is alienating itself from the rest of the cultures via islamabhobia...[I wrote this line, as i got this perspective from a hindu editor's column], so we need to make sure, we behave responsibly, for our safety.

Its not a bad idea to go out for a night show, but its definitely a very bad idea to chose a walking rather than a taxi...

3:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ada kaduvulae.. What kinda place is that? Doesnt anyone complain to the local authorities?

6:49 AM  
Blogger Divya said...

hi Usha, visiting ur blog for the first time, u have a very good flow of writing, can u please increase ur font size , its hard for me to read.

7:01 PM  
Blogger Ms Congeniality said...

oh my god..pls be careful..

8:21 AM  
Blogger barbi bharadwaj said...

good article. nice to see posts containing tamil words also.

dhoom effect???

1:16 AM  
Blogger vishy said...

so next post eeppppo.??/

4:15 PM  
Blogger Deekshanya said...

Dear Usha,
Wish you a Merry Xmas and a blessed newyear ahead!
-Deeksh

10:26 PM  
Blogger Porkodi (பொற்கொடி) said...

நெக்ஸ்ட் போஸ்ட் எல்லாம் கிடக்கட்டும், கல்யாணம் எப்ப்ப்ப்போ??

10:42 AM  
Blogger EarthlyTraveler said...

Usha,I wish you a year full of happiness,love,smiles and celebrations dear.Happy 2007.--SKM

9:49 AM  
Blogger The Kid said...

enna madam romba naala ezhuda-ve illa,
inda kodumaye kekarardukku yarum illaya?

3:39 AM  
Blogger Syam said...

50 :-)


Wish you a Wonderful New Year!!!

8:01 AM  
Blogger மு.கார்த்திகேயன் said...

இனிய புத்தாண்டு வாழ்த்துக்கள் தோழியே..

இந்த வருடத்தில் கிடைத்த உங்கள் நட்பு எனக்கு மகிழ்ச்சியை தருகிறது. பரந்து விரிந்த இந்த உலகத்தில் நம்மை சேர்த்து வைத்த இந்த பிளாக்கருக்கு நன்றி.

இந்த புதிய வருடத்தில் ஆண்டவனிடன் நீங்கள் வேண்டும் யாவும் கிடைக்கப்பெற்று, நல்ல ஆரோக்கியத்துடன் நீங்களும் உங்களும் குடும்பத்தினரும் எல்லா வித இன்பங்களும் கிடைக்கப் பெற்று வாழ வாழ்த்துக்கள். தாங்கள் பணிபுரியும் அலுவலகத்தில் மேலும் மேன்மை அடைந்து சிறக்க வாழ்த்துக்கள்

6:58 PM  
Blogger மு.கார்த்திகேயன் said...

உஷா, என்ன ரொம்ப நாள பதிவு ஒண்ணும் போடல போல.. என்ன கல்யாண ஏற்பாடுகளா

6:58 PM  
Blogger Viji said...

kodumai akka... new year kulla innuru post podu! Advance wishes for a happy new year!

8:47 PM  
Blogger KK said...

Wishing you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year!!! :D

12:08 AM  
Blogger Ravi said...

ushaaaaaaa .. mr.ushaaa epdi irukaar ...

wishing u all a very happy and a prosperous new year .. and thanks for making this year more cheerfull...

1:36 AM  
Blogger Ajay said...

Usha,
Wishing you a great 2007

9:50 PM  
Blogger My days(Gops) said...

Wishing u a Happy New Year 2007

10:35 PM  
Blogger smiley said...

DD .... reminded me of the days when we used to listen right from the start of the DD music till the end :)

Wish u a happy new year :)

6:54 AM  
Blogger smiley said...

sorry wrong message ... wrong blog....

Usha, Wish you a Happy New Year... right message, right blog

6:57 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

haiyooo London'ey aabathana nagarama? Keenjudhu kisha giri!

3:11 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

...comedyaa poittu iruntha un blog lifela ipdi oru serious sceneaa... enna koduma ithu..
anywy i gt no more addwise to add... alrdy allaarum avangaavanga rangekku solleeetanga...
jus 1 thing...
your blogtitle n evn th post titles r too good... mks an interestin read after lunch jus bfor th aftrnoon nap...
intha aandilum seerum sirappumaaga thangal narpani endrendrum thodarattum... vazhthukkal!!!

1:04 AM  
Blogger radiantbear said...

Happy New Year.

8:08 PM  
Blogger Ravi said...

morpheus ... yaar idha serious nu sonnadhu ..

usual kodumai'la ithu oru ..special effects oda vanthathu avalavuthaan ...

itha poi .. serious .. hospital nu solli en guru'oda dignity'a koraikaatheenga

10:54 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

koduma koduma nu unga blog'ku vandha inga innadana 2 maasama oru posutm poda irukeerengo! :(

1:19 AM  
Blogger Porkodi (பொற்கொடி) said...

yamma kodumai thaaye post eppo kannalam eppo onume solla matengriye?!

1:34 PM  
Blogger Ajay said...

ennama...aalaye kanom...busy?? ;)

10:04 AM  

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