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Thursday, July 26, 2007

Daddy Daddy...oh my daddy...:(

My father has expired..just got the news, and I feel so numb..faced the news bravely, sat still for sometime and got back to normalcy in a few mins and started searching for my company provided flight tickets. Amma kitta pesinen, and gave rational suggestions to my guy for the flight schedule, made decisions on when and how to travel to India...and he was telling his parents that I am taking the news bravely...and then he went in to get me the food. That moment was when my mind shed the facade of normalcy, and I have been sobbing ever since....thinking about my dad, what he missed, what I could have done for him...would I have been the reason behind his sickness? That I was away from him ever since I started working outside Chennai? That I never got to speak to him real personally in all these years, having the physical distance as a reason? I can't seem to stop my tears...I can't see my dad again..where is the rational female who was sitting on this sofa a few minutes ago?

36 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so, so sorry.
Please accept my deepest condolences Usha.

A..

7:29 PM  
Blogger Butterflies said...

Usha...oh my god!this shdnt have happned casually came to yr blog and im so upset!

Deepest Condolances!

11:32 PM  
Blogger Yours Truly said...

oh my god...my hearthfelt condolence!

Had been checking your blog on a daily basis and was wondering why there were no new posts...and never in my dream I thought I would see a post like this....

9:18 AM  
Blogger manju said...

I always used to be cheered up reading your posts. But today, the case is different. Sorry to hear about your dad. My deepest condolences.

10:56 AM  
Blogger Ajay said...

terribly sorry, Usha..may ur Dad's soul rest in peace..

11:01 AM  
Blogger Beautiful Mind said...

Hey..I supppose you are handling the situation well..take care..I am sorry about the news..

First time..visiting your blog..this is really a "kodumai" news..

2:23 AM  
Blogger Adiya said...

oh :(

we all share in your grief. we sad very sad.

let me pray for his soul rest in peace and support all ur actions as he used to be,

8:09 AM  
Blogger ambi said...

ohh my God!
my deepest condolence to your entire family.

11:13 AM  
Blogger Janani said...

Oh My GOD!!!

My deepest condolence to your entire family.

Let your dad's souls rest in peace

8:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My deepest condolence to you and your family members usha....this is part of life.....Raj

3:17 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Usha, Really sorry about th news. I know no amount of words would be sufficient to make for the loss. My deepest condolences.

3:40 AM  
Blogger Natarajan Sundaram said...

hey,
sorry abt ur dad! i really felt bad. but we have to take the way, the life for everyone will end someday! my condolences.

4:12 AM  
Blogger Shree said...

oh usha... i feel very sorry for you.. so shocking when i learnt the news from ambi. i am dumbstuck. yenna achu??
take care.. keep up your braveness as usual. take care of amma and anna.

8:31 AM  
Blogger vishy said...

Usha my deepest condolence to you..

7:43 PM  
Blogger Arunkumar said...

just came here casually.. got very upset reading this...

my deepest condolenses and i pray for your dad's soul to rest in peace...

1:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My deepest condolence to you and your family members - V.Arun

11:48 PM  
Blogger APAM NAPAT said...

Usha,
Sorry to read about it. Keep up your courage and help your mom recover from this tragedy.
Rajesh

6:50 AM  
Blogger SLN said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Just came to your blog after a long time and it was a big shock to read about it.

SLN

2:32 PM  
Blogger dakaltiz said...

Usha.. :( i'm very sorry ....i've been thro this and i know how it feels... may the almighty give your and your family the strength, courage in this toughest times...

My deepest condolences to you n your family..

Time will heal!
-Dinakar

2:37 PM  
Blogger neighbour said...

No words to express the loss.

Have you drafted this blog after you received the news.. You are mentally so strong.

4:29 AM  
Blogger ashok said...

how r u doing Usha? My heartfelt condolences...Iam sure u wud have made him a proud dad...may his soul RIP.

8:59 AM  
Blogger smiley said...

:( :( :( ...............

9:26 PM  
Blogger sunshine said...

My heart felt condolences to you and your family mam!May God give you and your family the courage to bear this loss. May his soul RIP!

11:34 PM  
Blogger Prakash S said...

Usha, my deepest condolences to you n your family..

12:11 AM  
Blogger golmaalgopal said...

Deepest condolences to u n ur family'kka ...

9:54 AM  
Blogger KK said...

I am very sorry to hear about the news... my deepest condolences to you and your family. May god give you and your family the strength to overcome this sad moment.

2:35 PM  
Blogger Venkat said...

Hi Usha,

Deep condolences to you and your family. I just searched for something in google and got your blog as one of the results.. and came here. Shocked after seeing this news...
காலம் கடந்த பின் துன்பங்கள் அவற்றின் கூர்மையை இழந்துவிடுகின்றன.
நம்புவோமாக...

2:46 PM  
Blogger மு.கார்த்திகேயன் said...

எனது ஆழ்ந்த வருத்தங்கள் உஷா.. ஒவ்வொருவரின் வாழ்க்கையிலும் தந்தையின் பங்கு மகத்தானது.. அவரது இழப்பு நிச்சயம் நம் மன மரத்தின் ஆணி வேரையே அசைத்து பார்க்கும்..

உங்கள் தந்தையின் ஆன்மா சாந்தியடைய ஆண்டவனை வேண்டுகிறேன்

5:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my deepest condolences to you...

8:53 AM  
Blogger Ravi said...

.. never been so serious .. out on your blog ... am reading it after a long gap .. ..starring the web address ... wish its not ur's .. sad .. its ur's ...

... my deepest condolences to you... and your family .. tears rolling out .. coz' its not just the laugh that i gotto share .. its also .. deep sorrows .. !!
.. i wish .. let the god provide u and ur mom all the courage to get over this .. and give us back .. the same old .. usha .. take care

11:21 AM  
Blogger Shiva said...

I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure this is harder on your mother that anyone else. Please make it a point to talk to her and visit her as often as possible. My prayers are with you all.

3:14 PM  
Blogger Sudha.M said...

hai usha this is the first time i am reading ur blog... I feel very sorry for your family..I feel your pain since i too knew how it pains.. But nothing is permanent..

5:03 AM  
Blogger O Relly said...

Am so sorry, My deepest condolences. Be strong.

I have been visiting for almost a year now, and have enjoyed reading what you write totally. Thanks to you.

But somehow, I felt that this was something not to be posted in a blog and made public. I might be wrong, my personal feeling.

3:12 AM  
Blogger நாகை சிவா said...

My Heartfelt condolences...

His soul may rest in peace, will pray for the same.

4:39 AM  
Blogger Deekshanya said...

Heartfelt Condolences usha. Hope God gives you and ur family the courage and mind to accept this. May your dad's sould rest in peace.

5:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I salute this captain. Ofcourse, I like him. Captain, Your face is in my memory. I am feeling for aunty. Let god give her enough strength. Ofcourse, she is a soldiers wife.

7:48 PM  

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