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Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Edhukku pondatti ennai suthi vappati....


Nethu I was reading a book that revolves around Napoleon's second wife Marie Louise..hey, no! this is not a review at all! Oru normal reader-ku (adhavadhu ennai madhiri pamara human-ku) enna impression varudhu andha kadhai padicha udane-nradhudhan theme.

Mudhalla indha Marie & her royal family (Austrian Emperor kudumbam) chinna vayasula Napoleon-a bayangarama hate panranga, coz he invaded almost all kingdoms being a non royal-descendant. But when she is around 19, she is forced to marry Napoleon due to political reasons by her family. Inga oru super news, Napoleon mudhal wife-a thalli vachudarar coz she hasn't given him a kid in 19 years of their relationship and he knows that he isn't impotent coz his mistress has given him a kid! Namma Marie-um kalyanam pannikaranga. Appuram avanai meet panni first night mudinjavudane love panna arambichuduvanga, and this happens in 1 day! Apparently, andha kalathula ellam people can marry each other in register offices being in different locations (enna vasadhi parunga).

Avar nalla parthukarar Marie-a, she is happy and eventually bears a kid for him. Seri idhellam normal matter. Konja naal-la, Napoleon has to go for war with Russia..European Alliance form aagudhu, and despite Marie's pleas with her dad, avarum edhiri-a join pannidarar. Napoleon loses in the war and is banished to Elba. Marie kannapinna-nu feel pannuvanga, 'ayyo purushan enna panvar andha rocky island-la naan illama' appadintellam azhuvanga, but she is forced to come back to her father's palace with her kid inspite of her insistence on going to Napoleon.

Now, the European parties contemplate on making her the Duchess of Parma. Ivangalum adhu nadandhutta Napoleon-a frequent-a meet panlam coz of the location-nu sandosha padaranga. Meanwhile, she is suffering from Rheumatism and is asked by the physician to go to Aix for bathing in the medicinal waters there. Her dad sends her there with a one-eyed Count, Neipperg. Ivanga daily Napoleon pathi pesuvanga, aana avan kandukka mattan coz he has been instucted by the king to make her forget Napoleon. But he entertains her well and is considerate to her, so ammani-um impress ayiduvanga. At this point, she receives a letter from Napoleon asking her to come to him, she replies saying she isnt allowed and it might not be safe and he sends another letter hotly that he would abduct her and the kid if she does not meet him. Ingadhan madam manasu maridaranga, ennada ippadilam pesarane ivan-tu avanga love sethu poidumam! Theriyama dhan kekkaren, husband-wife kulla sandaiye varadha? Avan emotions purinjikalam illaya ivanga? Anyways, next few days she hears that he has brought back his mistress and her kid to live with him. Avlodhan, love ellam evaporated (this reason is atleast better than the earlier one).

At this juncture, ivangadhan already impress ayidaranga illaya Neipperg mela, rendu perum oru mazhai naal-la maja panidaranga, and become ardent lovers. There is a beautiful statement here - naan abstracted-a tharen - "She knew that Neipperg can never be her husband, but only her lover. Her strong Catholic beliefs denied the prospect of a divorce" - Aama, Catholic beliefs lover mattum vachikalam solludho? Ennanga idhu aniyayama iruku? Ishtathuku religion-a tweak panni use pannikaranga? Napoleon ennada-na anga maja panraru, ivanga inga maja panranga...what is family concept here? And this is the same conventional European community, or so I had been believing!

She gets the duchy of Parma eventually, and goes there with Neipperg. Thirumba pregnant aaranga, but she isnt shy to show the world that she and Neipperg have an affair! They marry after Napoleon dies, but that marriage is not something that would be accepted by law. Rendu pasanga avanuku koduthutu, avan sethappuram she marries yet another person with the protocol called "Secret marriage of convenience". She dies around 1859 at the age of 52-54 doing some social service during the waning years of her life. Ippadi mudiyudhu kadhai. Years ellam thappa kooda irukalam, enaku memory romba weak :D

Now, I am not criticizing anyone marrying twice or thrice, that depends on situation and emotions. But let them divorce the current spouse and love/marry someone else..but what is the point in the co-existence of lover and husband and the conflicting religious beliefs? Nalla kodumaingov idhu!!

26 Comments:

Blogger vishy said...

Hello..
enna title ithu? Kadha muzhukka Nepoleon oda wife ku than naraya affairs?? Title badi the book shld have spoken more about Nepoleon's affairs.

Intha pattu endha padathula??

Btwn.. ippadi kanda book ayum padichu kettu poidathinga.

5:53 AM  
Blogger radiantbear said...

hey hey sooper book pa... lol...

6:10 AM  
Blogger I said...

sigh. Wish I'd lived in the old ages.

7:22 AM  
Blogger Ramesh said...

indha napoleon oru kirukku.. avan pondaati Marie avana vida periya kirukku. ivanga kadhaya padichaa neenga miga periya kirukku... :-)andha kadhayaa blog adichu engallayum aakiteengalae kirukku.. :-)))

8:52 AM  
Blogger Ajay said...

'ur kids, my kids and our kids r playing outside'...
antha mathiri...

11:45 AM  
Blogger kuttichuvaru said...

enna kodumai saravanan ithu?? naan solla vantha dialog already Ajay sollittaaru... so athu repeat mode la padichikkunga....

btw @ vishy: intha paattu "kizhakku seemaiyile" padathula varum...

12:58 PM  
Blogger ada-paavi!!!! said...

sooper kadhai, 'urs mine and ours' appadi nu oru padam irukku, andha madri dhaan iduvum, ippidi dhaan irukkanom makkal ellam

6:41 PM  
Blogger neighbour said...

enaku fulla padika yellam neram illai.. but topickaiyum kadasi paravaiyum vachu parkum podhu kadhai padikaamayae puriyudhu..

naam oor kallakaadalunu vachukoongala...

idhu vellam arasiyalaa sagajamunumaa --namma orrla rendu pondati kaaran illaiyaa... --dasarathnuku 60000 pondatinu kelvi patathilaiyaaa...

8:49 PM  
Blogger dakaltiz said...

usha ithu epoyo nadantha kathai ileengo..ippovum sila edathula kaduthu... public la oru life..private la oru life.. athu thapputhaan...but velile sollanum na .namma society, culture apdi...

in btwn, nalla kadhai laam solreenga...ur usage of local slang is good..
I liked the lines... ;)

"ivangadhan already impress ayidaranga illaya Neipperg mela, rendu perum oru mazhai naal-la maja panidaranga"

10:04 PM  
Blogger Jagan said...

"ethukku pondatti ennai suthi vappati " was my anthem song ;-) ..i think u didnt get the moral of the story - "variety is spice" illai na life bore adikkum .

kudi seekarathule , jagan pathi-yum epadi oru story varanum nu unga god kita pray pannunga.

1:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

nalla kadhai.......Napoleon oru kammanaatti nu theriyum aana avan pondattiyum oru mahaa kammanaaatti nu ippo dhaan theriyum.....indha kadhaya padicha apparam Kalyaanum pannavae thonaadhu- Spouse unfaithful aa irundhaa, namakku mattum prachanai illa, the whole family kkae prachana dhaan- Kodumai da saami !!!

2:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

kalaingar Mu.ka gnabagam varala?

5:43 AM  
Blogger Vethalam said...

Adade, ennama irukku , ithu oru perfect "dhanush" kathai.
oru book i oc le vangi paducha effect vanthuduchu, nammo india le ithai vida periya periya kalakal kathai ellam undu,but rombha vasathiya anthamathiri ponungalai ellam "mohini " nu bracket kattiduvanunge, athu pinnadi poi pallai katti "eeeeeeeee" nu sollurathellam ivanunge , kadaisile mohini izhuthu poita nu statement viduvanunge !!--well when we see "silappu" madhavi veetukku poitu vantha kovalanukkaga (one of the worst lived those days )kannagi , pala latcham innocent people i eruchu ta !!!! but athai namo great history nu sollurom .
but incase what if ?
"kannagi" ippadi appadi irunthuta,
avalai konnutanunge nu vachupom , ippo kovalan pongi ezhunthu, daaaai en pondatiye evanda konnathu , intha da vanthathu kovam pudi sabham nu sonna , etho oru comedy padam patha effect vanthudum.!!!!

i like everything about silapathigaram, except the fact i dont like the theme of it , kovalan doesnt deserve that kinda
honor after his death.seri kathai engeyo poiduchu , sorry about that. anyways i lik ethis kinda story hearing with some critic , so aduthathu enna kathai sollapore "KODUMAI" usha?

-Vethalam

9:27 AM  
Blogger KC! said...

Vishy, Unfortunately namma tamil cinema there is nothing that would talk about a wife whose husband is a maja party and she herself turns a maja party..but indha title talks abt the theme in general. Indha book colleague en kaila force pannadhu, and it doesnt have dirty content like you find in some novels.

KC, Ajay - Sarath & Radhika pair madhiriya ;)

Mara thamizha, aasai! Welcome here :)

Ramesh, kavidhai kavidhai!

ada-paavi, ada-paavi!!

Neigh, Dasarathan pannadhunala adhu correct aayiduma enna?

Dakaltiz, naan mara thamizachi-ngo!

Jagan, en Anna class pasanga ellam Pledge edukumpodhu "All Indians are brothers and sisters except wife and pondatti"-nuvanga, andha jadhi pola neenga. Enga god-kittadhane, kandippa pray panren, unga wife ungalai Sahara desert-la oda vittu sudanum-nu..

GJ, you are right

Ashok, appadiye MGR, Jayalalitha ellarayum nyabaga paduthikonga

Veda, illa, ennoda kobam ennana idhu correct-nra madhiri ezhudiruku andha novel-la..

Vethalam, welcome here :) Enakum adhe kelvidhan Silapadhigaram pathi..chumma kannagi-ku silai vachirkanunga..she is but a kenai!!
And kadhai ellam eppovavadhudhan varum inga, unfortunately...naan nalla kadhai-solli kidayadhu.

9:37 AM  
Blogger Vethalam said...

Silapathigaram pathi thaniya oru postinge podalam , avvalavu kozhappam . ithai ellam namo enge therunjikka poram nu ninachu , avasa avasarama silai i vera vachutanunge , Kannagi i vachu intha nattuku enna moral kidachu irukkuu ?

1.purusan eva loda poi kuthu aduchalum pondatti kekka kudathu!!

2.mudunja , kai kal le irukurathai kazhatti avan kitte kodukalam ,rimbha santhosa paduvaru!!

3. kadaisile , appa veetule irunthu vangi kodukalam , avaru rombha rombha santhosa paduvaru !!!

4.appuram purusanai yaravathu ethavathu sollita , ellavalai um round katti vangu vangu nu vangittu, kadai sile antha area ya vukke "bomb " pottutu odidalam ,

5.mu.ka thatha mathiri evanavathu pozhappu odanumenu "kannagi pongi ezhunthal, thaba thaba nu odinal nu kavithai ezhuthi kittu yarai um think panna vidamatunge,

logic a think panna ,kannagi ku beach le silai vacha thuriyodhanan ikku vaikanum!!!

12:56 PM  
Blogger Kirukal said...

Enna nee historu buff aa? Nice story of Naoplean and Mary...yes antha kaalathula anything was allowed similar to the Gandharva marriage that supposedly exsisted eons ago...and u cud marry many people according to this custom I have heard.

8:00 PM  
Blogger Jagan said...

poramai ...also called stomach-burning .

11:33 PM  
Blogger ambi said...

Intha napoleaon nnu neenga mention panrathu "seevalaperi pandi" pugal napoleonaayaa? :)

napoleon is one of my inspiration. chee, avar(n) evloo periyaa majaa partyaa?

alexander pathi ethavaathu gilma kadhai irukka?

6:06 AM  
Blogger Vethalam said...

that persian boy is O YHEA ......

8:28 AM  
Blogger KC! said...

Kirukal, no no, me not a history buff..edho accidental-a en kaila andha book..gandharva marriage again tweak dhane.

Ambi, naan Alexander, Clive, Porus ivangalai pathilam gilma matter kidaikudha-nu thedaradhudhan velaiya vachindruken!!

Vedhalam, enna persian boy?

10:04 AM  
Blogger Vethalam said...

Onnum ille namma alexu irukare ,avaraithan persian boy nu sonnen,i remember reading about some kilma matter about him in my last semester in the school.

but vidungappa, pallu irukiravan "BAKKODA" thinkiran nu viduvingala.

11:30 AM  
Blogger Ram said...

Athu seri...Title yen aan samuthayatha kindal panra maathiri vachurukeenga...unga paanila sollanum na Marie yum thaane innorthanoda oodi poitta....

Naattamai, Title la maathu...!!!

11:30 AM  
Blogger come together said...

humans are different among all vibrates god gave six sense to think and live a live a decent life not like a dog or any other animals i don know y those ideats don think this

9:50 AM  
Blogger leninraj said...

Am very new to this blog.Ithula achariyamana vishayam ennanna intha story a kottilum neenga ellorum itha intha allavukku criticise panrathuthan.The people you are very good in tamil culture and tamil language.Neengallem enga irrukeeinga intha allavukku chennaila yossika allum illa thayiriyamum illa.Here we people sitting infront of tv watching kalai nigachigal and serials.The conversation is good.Healthy communication.All the very best

10:18 PM  
Blogger dEviL said...

I was having just another boring day at the office when i came across this post.. have to say, aweesome post. throughly enjoyed reading. mad my day.. :D

11:25 PM  
Blogger dEviL said...

made*

12:05 AM  

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